Saturday, September 23, 2006

What Kind of Letter Writer Are You?

As I waded deeper into the ocean of pen palling, I learned that there are several different kinds of writers.

Some people only wish the write, and receive, letters that consist of one to two pages of handwritten correspondence. They prefer letters of modest word count with personal information. If you send then a one page note scribbled on the back of an old notepad, they are not going to be impressed.

I've palled with people that put a great deal of emphasis on the actual materials used. Some pallers will write only if you use decorative stationary and colored inks. There are people who prefer to write to people that decorate their own stationary and use stickers to decorate the envelopes. Then, there are those people that welcome the even smallest note on crumpled paper.

Some people wish to write, and receive, very long letters. When you get a letter from one of these writers, you will feel as though they really see you as a person. They have obviously taken a great deal of time to write you the details on their lives, and most of them expect the same care and consideration in return.

It's easier to get-to-know the people that write longer letters, or letters that are shorter and filled with details. I used to comment that although I seldom write an eight page letter, my two page letter is just as informative. It really is all about what there is to be said, and who it's being said to.

There are people who enjoy small notes. Still, others prefer postcards. There are some pallers that prefer pen pals that exchange objects such as friendship books, slams, or stickers.

Some may find that they are a complex mixture of all styles of letter writing. It may depend on the person they are writing to, or the time the letter is being written.

No matter what style of writing you find you enjoy most, it's important to make sure you are properly matched with pals. Don't write that you are a long-letter writer if you typically write a one page letter. Both you, the person you are writing to will be disappointed.